Curvy Troubles

I know exactly what you're saying but everyone seems to think that you NEED to be skinny in order to be pretty making curvy people feel not so pretty. Which isn't true at all :[. I don't want to offend anyone so no matter what size you are, you're gorg. :]

KiWiMUSUME<3 wrote:First off, curves are totally awesome. EVERYONE loves them, legit. Especially guys

I hate it when people say stuff like this and also "Real women have curves". Well sorry for actually being naturally slim, small chested, having small hips and hardly having a bum! You know it makes me feel shit! It makes it sound like just because I wasn't blessed with big boobs or a bum that guys won't give me a look! I do feel though more and more that 'curvy' is just a politically correct way of saying overweight. Being overweight and underweight is unhealthy, to me curves are boobs and hips, not rolls. If you're a healthy weight and happy with your body then don't make others feel worse by saying "Curvy women are better" and if people aren't happy with their bodies then they should bloody do something about it! Eat healthier, tone up but the fact is naturally slender girls can't get bigger boobs unless they loaded.

Skinny people get the same pressure to be beautiful as Curvy people. For me with no curves I have to be skinny otherwise I'd just be shapeless and unattractive I understand that overweight girls get the piss taken out of them all the time but then at the other end of the spectrum if you don't have curves people always seem to think that you should 'get them' -- as if it's that easy. The only way I'm getting boobs is when I get my boobjob mwahaha

I agree completely with both of you. I know the pressure both people, curvy and skinny have. But I think if you're skinny or fat, curvy or flat, whatever it may be, just be comfortable with who you are. You know what I mean? And just because someone doesn't have big boobs doesn't mean they won't get guys ;-;. My friend thinks that and its not true at all D:. And no matter what body type you have, as long as you love it, that confidence will shine through.

well..im actually happy with having no curves, im not flat but normal XDDD
i would hate it too have a fat butt or too large boobies ~
everyone is beautifull hahaah!


(except rihanna or MJ)

Hahaha yeah. Around here, if you're not totally bone thin skinny, you're not pretty. So it affects the heavier people and makes them feel bad. And I just want them to know that they're beautiful too, you know? I think that everyone should appreciate their body coz its so unique and no one else has one like them. :]

If you know how to work your figure then you'll be sexy no matter what I personally don't mind being flat chested too much because I can fit into Japanese brands a lot easier when I get my hands on them lol But then at the same time I can't wear certain tops because even if they're my size they can only be worn by people with boobs, so it ends up looking indecent on me. I end up having to go down a size to make it fit my chest but then that means it's tight around the shoulders and waist so it's not worth it.

Ugh I hate that. My boobs are too big to fit into anything. (okay I'm over exaggerating a bit) but sometimes it gets soososo annoying when I'm dress shopping ><;; I find like the cutest dress ever, but I can't zipper it past my boobs ;~;. It just gets so agitating sometimes. xD. And I totally agree with working your figure thing lol. No confidence is bad :[!

i wear size XS/S >< thats 34/36 that's a normal size i guess?
im okai with my upper body, but my legs T_T two years ago i also was on my bicecyle 2 hours a day to school, and now i have MUSCLE and i hate it!!
that's what im trying to get rid of ~
it's my under legs my upper are ok too =p

Oh god. LEGS. My worst nightmare. I HATEEEEEE my legs. My legs are muscular too. Considering the fact that I used to play soccer and so from all the running, I gained A LOT of muscle. I mean they're not awful, just not where I'd like them to be. I wish I was like.. an xs XD. Oh well. Here comes more walking!

i dont have guys leg , but they are so muscle!!
my belly is quite flat (except when i have period lol) but when i was sick for a week alot ot trowing up etc i lost alot of weight like 4 kilo, then i weight 50 and my legs were prettyyyy that's why i want to lose that weight again (healty way though) but i gained it all after i started eating normal (after i got sick) it was just flu btw XD and oh no not the mexican lol..

KiWiMUSUME<3 wrote:Ugh I hate that. My boobs are too big to fit into anything. (okay I'm over exaggerating a bit) but sometimes it gets soososo annoying when I'm dress shopping ><;; I find like the cutest dress ever, but I can't zipper it past my boobs ;~;. It just gets so agitating sometimes. xD. And I totally agree with working your figure thing lol. No confidence is bad :[!

I have trouble finding clothes small enough to fit me! I have small hips and very long legs, it's so hard to find things that fit me due to being tall and slender.

lovelovepeach wrote:i wear size XS/S >< thats 34/36 that's a normal size i guess?
im okai with my upper body, but my legs T_T two years ago i also was on my bicecyle 2 hours a day to school, and now i have MUSCLE and i hate it!!
that's what im trying to get rid of ~
it's my under legs my upper are ok too =p

I have muscular legs from dancing since I was two, bicycle riding (which I love), netball and cross country, muscle can be a pain to get rid of when trying to slim down though.

Oh yeah def. I love to dance too, I danced since I was two too ;D. My friend is tall and pretty skinny. She always complains about not being able to find things that fit her. I feel for you <--..That's kind of weird. But anyways yeah clothes can be a total pain in the ass sometimes >>

mhh yeah...
do you guys have trouble finding clothes because it's too small (because of you're height)
im 166cm..im so big T_T i feel sad..im afraid if i go too japan i stand out LOL
but yeah all my friends are 175+ (yes dutch are the biggest of the world!) but im this height for 3 years so i guess i wont grow anymore (or not alot i hope)

OH AND xD -doublepostsorry- with bra sizes, im a 70C and its ALWAAAAAAAYS sold out or not there!
that's sucky lol!!