Your hair reminds of Tsubasa Masuwaka's hair in this picture , except shorter.
Although, if you *do* have darker hair and are unable to change it's colour, it's good that you really perfect your makeup and make your eyes stand out
Other hairstyles you can do:
I think this is from happie nuts
braids, incorporating feathers, scarves etc into hair will help.
Putting your hair up in an "odango"
and tutorials from binosusume are also really good:
Scroll down her uploads and you'll get all her hairstyle tutorials, she also does nail tutorials as well.